I have always ask myself. Being a mum, how could I juggle both work and family well at the same time? If you are holding a full time job, let's say a 9 to 6pm job, by the time you reach home, you only have a few hours to bond with your kids, your Hubby as well as finish those household chores!!! Some of my colleagues often tell me, you can leave it till weekend! But things like, after having dinner, you need to wash the dishes! Empty water flasks, you need to refill them! So? Boil water!
Junior's uniform need to be washed, ok! Fine, I can get more set of uniforms but ultimately I still have to wash them no matter how many sets of uniforms I buy! Right? Like my next door neighbour who told me that to decrease the daily washing of her son's uniforms, instead of the standard 2 sets of uniforms, she bought another 2 more sets! So she could do the washing for 3 days instead of everyday! Hmmm, but to me it's side at the end of the week you still have to wash 4 sets of clothes! Haha... Aiya, it's up to individual on how you look at it!
There are so many things to be done. By the time, I put Junior to bed, I'm already dead beat! Seriously!
But in the US, there are quite a number of resources which could help Mums to better juggle both work and family well. Let's read this article from the
US News!
Help for Moms Blending Work and Family
Whether you're starting your own business or negotiating a flexible schedule, resources are available
As women find new ways to combine work and motherhood, online communities and other resources have sprung up to help. Here are some useful sources:
BlueSuitMom.com provides advice on motherhood, money, and careers to working moms.
Alpha Mom TV features videos and blogs on motherhood and child-rearing.
Mothers & More connects mothers who are taking a break from the workforce while they are caring for children.
The Anti 9-to-5 Guide: Practical Career Advice for Women Who Think Outside the Cube, by Michelle Goodman, explains how to go from a traditional office environment to one that puts you in charge of your own schedule.
WorkOptions.com, through articles and proposal templates, offers advice on negotiating a flexible work schedule.
MomsRising organizes mothers (and fathers) interested in advocating for family-friendly policies.
Mom Inventors, founded by Tamara Monosoff, author of
Secrets of Millionaire Moms, provides tips for mothers who want to start their own businesses, and sells products invented by moms.
Moms-for-Profit offers consulting services to mothers who are entrepreneurs.
The Feminine Mistake, by Leslie Bennetts, warns against the dangers of dropping out of the workforce altogether. She argues that women should find a way to work throughout motherhood to protect themselves from financial problems later on.
I believe there are
some online resources in Singapore too.